If only there was a clear cut way to know for sure if your
partner is cheating on you. Unfortunately, very few cheating partners are
willing to be honest about their behaviors.
A cheating spouse, or just the thought that your partner
might be having an affair, can be a horrible thing to try to live
with.
I know as I have personally
experienced this situation. I lost focus on just about everything
else going on until I finally made the decision to seek the truth.
If you are here, then hopefully you have made that decision too.
Want to catch your spouse? Has your husband or wife been
spending hours on their computer - 'just chatting' at online sites?
Do you know the signs of a cheating spouse? We do and
give them to you free!
We can help you learn what to look for when you suspect
infidelity. A marriage or any relationship takes work to maintain.
Sometimes that work isn't pleasant, but you owe it to yourself to
investigate the truth about any suspected infidelity. After you
learn the truth, you can decide what is best for your future - as
that can be a a very personal and painful decision.
If you suspect Cybersex or Online Infidelity,
then your suspicions are probably right - your husband or wife is
probably guilty!
Currently, we maintain a database with over 80,000 email addresses
used online to contact people looking for sex thru adult personal Ad
sites!!
We keep a database to help people investigated and catch husbands or
wives looking to cheat. In fact, with the right information and
tools you can easily monitor online activities or fully investigate
and catch your two timing wife or husband!
Cyber-Cheating
Is it really an affair ... even if it's only online?
You bet it is!
By definition online cheating is real! |
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The Definition |
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Cheating (noun) = Any sexual
behavior, engaged in secretively with a person not one's spouse,
that would make the spouse feel betrayed if discovered. |
If cyber-cheating 'doesn't count',
then why are they trying to keep it a secret? This is really the
question to ask both them and yourself. Do people really keep
secret something that they feel is OK to do? I don't believe so -
and neither should you.
Did you know that studies on 18-45 year olds, 72% of males and 48%
of females have admitted to being unfaithful in past relationships.
It hurts. To even think that he or she may be cheating on you. If
you have the suspicion though, you owe to yourself and your
relationship to seek the truth ...
Conservative estimates are that 60 percent of
men and 40 percent of
women will have an extramarital affair.
These figures are even more significant when we consider the total
number of marriages involved-since it's unlikely that all the men
and women having affairs happen to be married to each other. If even
half of the women having affairs (or 20 percent) are
married to men not included in the 60 percent having
affairs, then at least one partner will have an affair in
approximately 80 percent of all marriages.
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Do you suspect your partner is
doing the bump and grind with the keyboard?
Look for these online signs of
extramarital affairs
- He closes the laptop whenever you enter the room or
he starts hiding windows.
- He password protects his computer with the
screensaver or the computer itself.
- If his cyber lover is nearby he may start leaving
work for "lunch".
- If she is far away you can watch your phone bill.
But with the new era of phone cards that are cheaper
than local service he may be using those.
- Are you getting more hang up calls than you are used
to? Is he whispering into the phone when he answers it
or is he always just hanging up when you walk into the
room?
- Is he volunteering to go to the post office all of a
sudden? Or always going to the store for "you"?
- He is "talking" more during sex or making "new"
request from you in the bedroom.
- Is he staying up "working" on the computer after you
go to bed a lot? Does he get up before you and heads
straight for the computer?
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Recognize the signs of cheating boyfriend or girlfriend. These five signs
of cheating will save you time and heartache.
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Loss of Sex Drive
Unless there is another cause of stress (i.e., difficult assignment at
work), then a sudden loss of interest in
sex may indicate your loved one is getting it elsewhere.
- Defensiveness
A cheating partner often feels bad deep down and this guilt can come
out via defensiveness or blame placed on you. Be on the look out for
signs of aggressiveness from your partner.
- Host of Excuses
They may seem cliche, but comments about needing to work late, having
to take a business trip, or needing to unexpectedly meet with a
client, can all be signs of cheating.
- Telephone Hang-Ups
If your partner's new liaison is bold enough to call your home number,
he or she may hang up if you answer, instead of your partner. Be on
the look out for frequent hang-ups.
- Gifts Out of Nowhere
Besides defensiveness, your cheating partner may try to throw you off
track by being extra nice. Flowers, chocolate, and other gifts,
especially if they are typically uncommon, could be a sign of
infidelity.
Please do keep in mind that none of these signs are guarantees of a
cheating partner. They are only indicators, and the more of them you
see, the higher the chances something is going on. Communicate with
your partner if you feel something is going on, and you'll give your
relationship the best shot at surviving over the
long haul.
  
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